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Pairing game · Game 153 of 388 ♣

Old Maid

Pair up your cards, draw blind from your neighbour – and pray you're not the one left holding the odd Queen.

Players
2–8
Duration
10 min
Age
4+
Difficulty
easy
Cards
51 cards (one Queen removed)
Skill – Luck
SkillLuck
Everyone for themselves – Lots of interaction
Everyone for themselvesLots of interaction
Simple – Complex
SimpleComplex
Quick – Long
QuickLong

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Quick rules

  • Goal: don't be left with the Old Maid – the odd Queen.
  • Take out one Queen unseen. Deal all 51 cards face down – uneven hands are fine.
  • Discard pairs face up: same rank, any suits. Three of a kind: discard two, keep one.
  • Left of the dealer starts. Turn: fan your cards face down to your left neighbour; they draw one blind.
  • New pair? Discard it at once. Then they offer their cards on.
  • No cards left: you're safe and skipped from now on.
  • All pairs gone: whoever holds the last Queen loses.

Cheat sheet

Variants (agree first)

Variant Change
Black Peter Take out J♣. A pair: same rank and colour (7♥ 7♦, K♠ K♣). Holding J♠ loses
Short deck 32 cards: A K Q J 10 9 8 7, minus the Queen
Papaz Kaçtı Take out 3 Kings – the last King loses. Offer to the right

Tips

  • Shuffle your hand before you offer it, so nobody knows where the Queen is.
  • Keep a straight face when your neighbour's fingers come near the Old Maid.
  • Letting it stick out a little may tempt your neighbour – or it may be a trick.
  • Black Peter tradition: the loser gets a black dot on the nose – washable pen.

Full rules

  1. Overview
  2. Setup
  3. Playing a turn
  4. Running out of cards
  5. Winning (and losing)
  6. Tips for beginners
  7. Variants

Overview

Old Maid is a simple, cheerful game for small children and grown-ups. One Queen is taken out of the deck, so one Queen – the Old Maid – can never be paired. Everyone gets rid of pairs and draws cards blind from their neighbour. Whoever is left holding the Old Maid at the end loses.

  • Players: 2–8 – best with 3–6.
  • You need: one standard 52-card deck, no jokers.

Setup

  1. Take out one Queen – any one – and put it away unseen. You play with the other 51 cards.
  2. Deal: one player shuffles and deals all the cards face down, one at a time, clockwise. It doesn't matter if some players get one card more than others.
  3. Everyone picks up their cards and looks at them without showing them.
  4. Discard pairs: a pair is two cards of the same rank – two 7s, two Kings and so on (the suits don't matter). Put all your pairs face up in the middle. If you have three of a kind, discard two of them and keep the third.

Playing a turn

The player to the dealer's left starts; play goes clockwise.

  1. Fan out your cards face down and offer them to the player on your left.
  2. That player picks one card without seeing its face and adds it to their hand.
  3. If the new card makes a pair, they discard the pair at once.
  4. Then it's their turn to offer their cards to the player on their left – and so on around the table.

Example: Anna holds 3♥ 9♣ Q♠. Her right-hand neighbour offers his cards, and she picks the 9♦ – a pair of 9s! She puts 9♣ 9♦ in the middle. Now she offers 3♥ Q♠ to the player on her left.

Running out of cards

If you get rid of all your cards, you are safe and take no further part. The turn passes on to the next player who still has cards. If your left-hand neighbour is out, offer your cards to the next player on your left who still has cards.

Winning (and losing)

In the end all cards are paired and discarded except for one lonely Queen – the Old Maid. Whoever holds it loses; everyone else has won.

Tips for beginners

  • Keep a straight face when your neighbour's fingers come near the Old Maid!
  • Shuffle your cards before you offer them, so nobody knows where the Queen is.
  • Some players let the Old Maid stick out a little to tempt their neighbour – it may work, or it may be a trick.

Variants

Optional – agree before you start.

  • Black Peter: the German version, Schwarzer Peter. Take out the J♣ instead of a Queen. A pair must be the same rank and the same colour (7♥ with 7♦, K♠ with K♣). The J♠ is left over at the end: it is Black Peter, and its holder loses. Traditionally the loser gets a black dot on the nose – with a washable pen.
  • Short deck: for a quicker game, play with only 32 cards (A K Q J 10 9 8 7 of each suit, minus the card you take out).
  • Three Jacks out: in the Black Peter version, take out every Jack except the J♠. Then any two cards of the same rank make a pair, whatever their colour.
  • Papaz Kaçtı: the Turkish version. Take out three Kings instead of a Queen – the last King is the loser. Play goes the other way round: you offer your cards to the player on your right.

Background & history

  • Family: Pairing game (discard pairs, avoid being left with the odd card)
  • Origin: Europe; Black Peter recorded in Germany from 1821, Old Maid in America from 1831
  • Also known as: Black Peter / Schwarzer Peter (Germany), Vieux Garçon or Le Pouilleux (France), Zwarte Piet (Netherlands), Svarte Petter (Sweden), Papaz Kaçtı (Turkey)
  • Related games: Scabby Queen, Jackass, Donkey

Old Maid belongs to a family of games whose only purpose is to find a loser. According to Wikipedia, such games are probably very old and derive from simple gambling games in which the loser had to pay for the next round of drinks.

The German Schwarzer Peter (Black Peter) is the oldest recorded member, with rules from 1821. It was played with an ordinary deck – often 32 cards – from which a black Jack was removed, so that the other black Jack could not be paired. A popular story links the name to the robber Johann Peter Petri, called "der alte Schwarzpeter", who is said to have invented the game in prison from 1811; the German Wikipedia considers the game itself probably much older. The loser traditionally had their face marked with a cork blackened in a flame.

In English the game is first described by Eliza Leslie in America in 1831 – called Old Maid when girls played and Old Bachelor when boys played – and it was published in England in 1835. French rules for Vieux Garçon ("old bachelor") appear from 1853. From the 1880s, publishers sold illustrated decks for the game, and in Germany special Schwarzer-Peter decks with animal pictures have been printed since 1919. Where the game has a male name, a Jack is usually the odd card; in Old Maid it is a Queen.

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